Sster wrote on March 12, 2008:
Can I please just rip the contents of my house out like a tablecloth after a feast? I do not have time to clean it and there is no one else to do it. Most days I can either be a good parent (outings! attention! games! singing! art!) or have a clean kitchen.
If we could just start over maybe I’d have a chance…
So maybe I didn’t envision quite this kind of a do-over, but I have to admit (don’t tell!) that I am enjoying starting over in terms of organization. Our old house was sooooo so messy and all over the place. Part of the problem was that it was weirdly designed–the storage for the things you needed in one room was almost always in another, and usually too high or too deep to get easily. We ended up with stuff in storage (in places like over the shower–who does that??) that we never used, and stuff lying around that we did use until it got lost under a pile.
THIS apartment will be, IS already, different. For one thing it’s laid out sensibly, with wider rather than deeper closets. Even the crawl space designated for storage is easy to get to, and if smartly organized, easy to get things out of (key: pile things on either side so you have a path in the middle). The kitchen is actually big enough to keep everything you need to cook and clean.
For another, I am determined that it will STAY clean and organized. I have a pretty sweet gig right now. I work on my dissertation two days a week and on the weekends and evenings when I can get it, and I stay home with the Snapper the other three weekdays. When he goes to bed I have the evening to myself. Starting from scratch, that is more than enough time to keep things tidy. For the past two weeks they have been, even taking the extra dog care into consideration.
This time around everything goes into a labeled bin or attractive basket. On the laundry room shelves there are bins for tools, hardware, misc. utility, bath toys, emergency supplies (flashlight, etc.), and cleaning supplies. In the linen closet (first real linen closet of our eight-year marriage), I have three baskets: hair stuff, bottled stuff (lotion, sunscreen), and medication. In the bathroom medicine cabinet there is a shelf for me, one for Attic Man, and the top one is reserved for cleaning supplies (no more trying to babyproof lower cabinets. Putting cleaning stuff higher than he can reach even if he were to scale the counters is easier and safer, in my opinion). On the inside of the coat closet door (a coat closet by the door! what a revelation!) are a set of over-the-door hooks I got for a bargain for dog leashes, keys, and slings (we saved my favorite one from the flood
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So if you had to (or got to) start over again, what would you do differently? What would your new rules or systems be? This stuff does NOT come naturally to me so I would love your ideas.
Well, just having done a major do-over as well…
I get rid of stuff constantly. If the kids outgrow toys or clothes I immediately decide if it’s something to save for future kids or something to get rid of. Then I move it out of the everyday rotation accordingly.
I have bins/tupperwares for lots of stuff. All of the kids toys are in clear smallish bins on their bookshelf (except for larger or odd shaped things). We finally got lots of bookshelves (before our books were mostly in the attic) and since we don’t have any closets in this house, we bought several large storage pieces from Ikea. Sideboard for my nice dishes, etc.
For me, having a place designated for stuff is the biggest thing. If it has a home, I can put it there quickly. So, organization and lots of getting rid of stuff is what works for me.
What would I do differently? Not have a husband and a daughter, that’s for sure.
Note, this is only in relation to “keeping things organized”!
The two of them shed items all over the place, without any rhyme or reason. I feel like I am constantly chasing after them, picking things up, returning things to their Proper Place, putting empty wrappers and used paper towels and soda bottles and cans into the trash, straightening piles, tossing out old catalogs…
AGH! Just thinking about it makes me crazy!
But! Our new house has closets. This is such a boon. We have a pantry cupboard in the kitchen. We have a linen closet. We have a coat closet. We have a laundry chute. We have big enough closets in both bedrooms. So I’ve been fairly able to keep things semi-organized in the new house.
I don’t think I’d want to have a flood to provide the impetus to re-arrange, though!
I admire your ability to see the silver lining in that awful cloud.